1.Every day, say something positive about yourself.
A great way to boost self-confidence and start feeling more beautiful is to set aside a moment each day to say something positive about yourself—set the clock to wake up at the same time each day so you don’t forget to do it, or just start saying it. something positive about yourself whenever you have a self-deprecating thought.Say something like “My earrings look very pretty”, “My dress looks great today” or “I did great on my math test”.
2.Learn to accept compliments.
When we ignore or refuse to accept others’ praise, the other person assumes that we don’t want to hear anything positive about ourselves. So when someone says something nice about you, resist the urge to say something like “No, you’re wrong” and simply respond, “Thank you! That means a lot to me.”
3.Avoid comparing yourself to others.
You are a unique individual and there is no other person in the world who is living the same life and circumstances as you, so don’t worry about what others are doing or what they have or don’t have. Whenever you start comparing yourself to someone, tell yourself that you are a different person, with your own set of positive qualities.
If you need help, write down all the things you admire about yourself on paper and reread the list whenever you feel like comparing yourself to someone.
Read about the standards of beauty—this will help you understand why there is so much pressure in society for a woman to be beautiful and why you shouldn’t compare yourself to anyone else.
4.Do something new every day.
A great way to build self-confidence is to do new things whenever possible, and it doesn’t have to be anything special — it can be something as simple as wearing a new shoe or taking a different route to school. Set a personal goal of doing one thing a day. Try wearing a light blue shirt if you always wear dark or neutral colors. Join a school club or study group. Order a different dish at your favorite restaurant.
5.Take more selfies.
They’re great ways to boost self-confidence, so spend some time taking lots of pictures of yourself and then choose the one you like best. You don’t need to share it with anyone, but you can still decorate it with a filter or sticker.Hating some of your photos is completely normal — even supermodels have photos they don’t want anyone else to see.